As I flipped open the cover, I found the inscription that I had penned inside, to celebrate my husband’s birthday on the first one we celebrated together. That was a magical time, for it was after we’d been dating for several months and just a few months before he proposed. My inscription went something like this: In cherished memory of our first kiss, and all those kisses yet to be…..
The introduction of the book describes the kiss as “soft and reassuring as butterscotch…. it lingers on the lips and lives in the memory. Talking about kissing is like humming about fire. Words are insufficient to describe the experience. Still we try, because kissing is an experience that must be shared.”
Try we do. Seriously. As a romance reader, I’ve read kissing scenes that melted my heart and ones that sizzled….. As a romance writer, I try to capture those same sentiments. The sweet softness of a first kiss. The soul-drenching passion of a not-first-kiss. Poets and writers and lyricists have all attempted to capture that feeling, transfer it to poem or book or song.
The little book I found is chock full of quotes from a variety of sources, all, of course, talking about kissing. My favorite one is the one that reminds me of the first kiss I shared with my husband, the one that he says made him know that “we” were going to be together forever. Near the beginning of our first date, I needed to step out of the room for a minute, and when I passed by him “….then I did the simplest thing in the world. I leaned down… and kissed him. And the world cracked open.” (Agnes de Mille, b. 1905, American choreographer and dancer)
What do you think — Can a kiss be captured in words?
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